5 Keys to Better Relationships Detachment is not freedom from relationships, but freedom in relationships. For a peaceful and loving relationship, recognise that others may have different views, as their recordings from the past are different. ‘Ego’ is a small 3 letter word which can destroy a twelve letter word called ‘Relationship’. Best relationships are like beautiful street lamps. They may not make the distance shorter but they light your path and make the journey easier. We never pay attention to any part of our body unless it pains. Don’t let it happen in relationships.